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Rich Shelton and Wilma live in Virginia USA. He was 45 when he was diagnosed on March 8, 2006. His initial PSA was 4.8 ng/ml, his Gleason Score was 4+4=8, he was staged T2 and has not yet decided on his treatment. Here is his story to date:

Well it's the middle of April and I'm in the middle of my treatment decision. It all started back in October I was doing a routine over 40 physical, military guy so the DRE is required. Well the blood came back with a PSA of 4.3 ng/ml, high enough to warrant a DRE, which found an enlarged prostate. So I was scheduled for a biopsy, which came back negative. The docs put me on an antiboitic thinking I had prostatitis, but after a month my PSA did not drop significantly.

I guess I got lucky because at this point my doc recommended me for a study at the National Institute of Health (NIH) that uses MRI to locate and treat prostate cancer. So I went through one very uncomfortable imaging procedure, followed by an MRI biopsy. The results of the MRI biospy showed cancer in one of 7 cores, with a Gleason Score of 4+4=8. I guess that was both good news and bad news; good news, I don't have a lot of cancer, bad news, I've got cancer and it's aggressive. I've also got a family history, my maternal grandfather died of prostate cancer in his early 60's. But luckily my father and brother both have normal PSAs, so I'm the big winner in the family!

I've talked to an Oncologist and two urologists, here are the treatment options I'm looking at;

1. A combination of External Beam Radiation (IMRT) combined with Hormone treatment. (this is another study at NIH). The External Beam Radiation is for two months as an outpatient while the Hormone Treatment is for over 2 years. My initial analysis is that I can take the radiation therapy but the Hormone treatment scares the hell out me.

2. Surgery, Laparoscopic nerve sparing surgery. Not sure aobut this one, I understand that this is the "gold standard," but the recovery is very lengthly and doesn't seem to come with any more guarantee than radiation.

So that's where I am right now. The wife wants surgery, she wants the cancer out of my body and we can worry about all the function issues later. She may well be right.

Well I'll make my decision soon so stay tuned!!

UPDATED
April 2006

 

OK, We've made our decision, surgery is how we're going to treat this disease. Why, because it seems to be the best choice for someone my age with a Gleason score of eight. My youngest is only 7 and I want to do the most I can to ensure I can be around when he's 27.

I'm still not comfortable with the long recovery period, but it seems better than 2 or 3 years of hormone treatment.

So now the big question is; "Who do I get to do the surgery?" Does it make a difference?

UPDATED
June 2006

 

Well the decision has been made. I will have surgery done at Walter Reed by Dr. McLeod. I guess I'm lucky, Dr. McLeod has a great reputation so I'm comfortable with him cutting me up.

I'm still not comfortable with the recovery or with the possibility that I could need more treatment than just surgery. But I guess that old saying is true, "The longest journey begins with the first step" so for me it's time to get stepping!!?

UPDATED
August 2006

 

Written 14 July 2006:

Well it has been one week exactly since my surgery and I am now dealing with the entire recovery process. My understanding is that the Sugery went well, meaning there was no cancer outside the capsule and that the nerves were spared.

This first week hasn't been too bad nor has it been too easy. The two big pains I'm experiencing are from the surgery and dealing with the catheter. The pain from the wound is kind of dull aching pain that goes away with medication. The pain from catheter is a combination of discomfort at having this thing in my body, and the shock that can occur when the tubing running to the urine bag is moved quickly!!! One piece of advice, get the tubing that runs down you leg to the pee bag cut to the right length, not too short and not too long. Anyway the whole thing comes out on the 24th "God Willing" Then I get to deal with all the other post surgery issues.

So what I'm saying here is that recovery is a long long long road. I'm glad so far for progress I'm making, and I'm trying not to push it too hard. The next big hurdle will be my first post-operative PSA.

Best wishes to all.

Rich

UPDATED
September 2006

Ok, I got the good news, my current PSA is 0.091 ng/ml, since I had positive surgical margins I guess I'm not completely in the clear but I feel as though I've turned the corner on the cancer.

As for the recovery, I joined a clinical study where I'm given a pill every night (could be Viagra, could be a placebo)I don't know. I do know that my erections are returning, they are strong enough for penetration but don't last very long.

I'm still wearing pads, going through about 4 a day since I've gone back to work. I'm also a little worried about the flow of urine. I almost always have to sit down now because I dribble so much we I urinate. Gone are the days when I could write my name in a urinal!!

Other than those two problems things are going well. I feel like I can finally start working out again!! It's great to be surviving!

 
UPDATED
November 2007

 

Rich says in an e-mail that he is travelling at present but will update when he gets home. for the moment this is the gist of where he is at:

I have survived both surgery and radiation therapy. My PSA finally started going down this July (from 0.11 to 0.07) I will be tested again at the end of November.

Still a little problem with incontinence, but sexual function has returned (assisted by drugs). Other than that I'm very thankful for everyday I get and especially thankful to you for maintain an excellent resource for all of us Pca guys

 
UPDATED
December 2007

 

 

Well it has been almost 18 months since my surgery, and 10 months since the end of my radiation therapy. Today I had a Cystocopy to open my uretha so that I can pee like a normal man. Thankfuly this procedure is quick and while not too painful. A Cystocopy is a procedure where a doctor inserts a cystoscope (telescope like instrument) that allows the doctor to see inside the urethra and bladder. My doctor was able to quickly (thank God) open my uretha allowing me to urinate more freely. I opted for this procedure after 6 months of Flowmax and Urolax which did not improve my urine flow. I should know in a couple of days if this procedure is successful. With a little luck this will be the last major event in my battle against Prostate Cancer. Just monitor and watch my PSA drop.

Currently my PSA is down to 0.08 My PSA has droped from a high of 5.3 before surgery to 0.08 after surgery and raditation. I consider myself extremely lucky, not only to have survived this long (original Gleason score of 8) but more so to have a decent return to quality of life. By quality of life I mean that I am now able to have intercourse (drug assisted), without drugs I am able to have other types of sexual activity. The one thing I miss is the ability to ejaculate. To me ejaculation provides some of the pleasure from an orgasm, now that is gone. But on the bright side my spouse doesn't seem to mind! So for me it's on with life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

Rich's e-mail address is: richard.shelton@us.army.mil

 

 

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