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Tom Thomas and Kate live in New Jersey USA. Tom was 54 when he was diagnosed on October 5, 2005. His initial PSA was 3.6 ng/ml, his initial Gleason Score was 7 and he was staged T2. His treatment of choice was Laparascopic Surgery. Here is his story:.


During the past 2 years I had two blood tests due to a car accident in November 2003.

The first test revealed a PSA of 2.4 ng/ml. The following test a year later showed a PSA 3.6 ng/ml which my dpctor sent me to an urologist to examine further. PSA was still low (3.6 ng/ml) when biopsy showed 5 out of 6 cores with cancer. Four cores were scored as Gleason Score 6 and one was Gleason Score 7.

I wanted to avoid the removal due to the nature of the operation and at first opted for seed implants by my urologist near my home. I went to my urologist who started me on a three month hormone shot (Trelstar) and scheduled me for a follow up on January 6 2006.

After our last meeting I learned about the laparoscopic non invasive removal technique at Sloan Kettering in New York and have opted for the this surgery. I informed my Urologist about my change in action but asked him to continue to see me after my operation (cath removal, psa tests etc) since Sloan Kettering is about a 90 minute trip for me. He seemd offended that I would opt for treatment at Sloan Kettering a world class cancer hospital by more experienced doctors with laparoscopic skills. Bascially he told me if I want I can see him in 6 months.

Well good riddance, I will take my trips into NYC for my follow up but just two words of caution:


1. Before you take a hormone shot be SURE about your decision because they are not easy and I took one for basically no reason.


2. Don't expect all doctors to be sympathetic if you opt for another treatment that he doesn't give. Some are out for the $$ and you are just a paycheck in their eyes.

My prostate cancer is contained and I have scheduled the Laparoscopic surgery for 1/18/2006. I had already taken a 3 month shot of Trelstar and the hormone shots have caused some sweating and lethargy problems for me.

I shall update the group after my surgery next week.

UPDATED
January 23 2006

Had successful Laparoscopic prostete removal on January 18, 2006.

I am now home and it is January 22(4 days after surgery) and feeling better each day. Most of the discomfort was from the CO-2 gas that was pumped into my abdomen during surgery and the pressure it was putting on my abs/organs and lower back.The pain has subsided as the gas has released and I have taken my first bowel movement (very soft) with no problem today. I am also eating a soft diet, soup, pudding,toast, breads etc an drinking a lot of water. The catheter bags have turned from dark red to yellow as my urine has gotten back close to normal color. Keep eating soft for now with stool softeners now and keep the bowel movements soft.

I have quickly gotten used to the catheter and use the leg bag during day and night bag over side of bed at night. I am scheduled to have the catheter removed on January 30 2006 and also receive my pathology reports on the Lymph Node scrapings. Today I completed a two mile slow walk around the local track and felt a bit tired but overall better then I thought I would. Although I only had surgery four days ago I am very happy with the way I feel and lack of pain or discomfort. At this point getting up and down is more difficult then actually walking but ths is very minimal really.

There are several things I have learned in these four days that I would like to pass on to other who may be considering laparoscopic prostate removal and your doctor may NOT tell you:

1) Shave or trim your pubic area before the operation as you will be lubing and cleaning the tip of your penis : less hair, less mess.

2) Attach the Cath-Secure velcro to the INSIDE of your thigh with some slack up top to keep the penis tip from being pulled as there is about 1/4 inch movement back and forth on the tube going into your penis.

3) Take over the counter stool softener (your doctor will surely recommend this)

4) Take over the counter gas relase medication as it relieved my abdomen discomfort rather quickly.

5) As you won't be able to bend over and lift anything heavy get some hand grips/stretch cords/light dumbells and keep by your sitting/TV area to keep your upper body from becoming atrophic.

I will update again after January 30,2006, good health to all and God Bless. Any questions please always feel free to email me.

 

UPDATED
February 2006

 

I had my laparascopic surgery on January 18, 2006 so it has been about 2 weeks now.

The surgery at Sloan Kettering in NYC was successful. I had five small knife-like wounds in my abdomen 3 for the robotic arms, one for gas inflation and one for drainage and I was discharged the following day. I say successful as everything went excellent according to the doctor and he took some Lymph Node scrapings for pathology tests to make sure he got all the cancer. The operation and immediate recovery went better then I ever thought possible as the dread I had for the last few weeks have vanished.

After the four hour surgery I was a bit woozy and very dry mouthed, slept well with minimal pain and relased from Sloan Kettering the following day. Tough getting up wth the catheter and IV in my arm but you HAVE TO get out of bed and walk, at first with nurse's assistance then alone (gets much easier the second time).

My main immediate problems was the catheter irritated the tip of my penis (and did so for the entire ten days it was in) and the CO-2 gas that is pumped into my abdomen took about 3 days to release and during that time the gas put pressure on my lower organs and lower back causing some pain (nothing extreme though). I was able to get around fine, with very minimmal pain and was able to walk 1 1/2 miles three days after surgery.

The surgeon took samples surrounding my prostate to check if the cancer had spread. The pathology reports came back and to my GREAT relief, the bladder neck, lymph nodes and surgical margins all came back negative. I had my catheter removed ten days after and am basically pain free and if not for the small wounds that are healing fine I would know that I had a major surgery two weeks ago.

My main immediate problem is urine leakage. I am able to control my urges somewhat but the leakage happens quite a bit. Much better when I sit or sleep at night. I wear Depends men pads in my underwear and use the bigger wraparound diaper type at night to avoid any leakage on my mattress. I have started Kegel exereicses and hope in time I can gain more control over the urine leakage. I will update after my follow up visit and first PSA test in 6 weeks.

If any members have suggestions regarding working on urine control would appreciate an email.

UPDATED
February 2006

 

Has now been 6 weeks since my laparascopic surgery on January 18,2006 and can't believe it all has gone so well. The pain from my abdominal incisions has totally gone away and urine leakage is now nil (six pads a day to one/sometimes two).

It took awhile for the incisions to heal (still scars) as they would be best described as an ice pick stab wound as the tip of the incision requires no stiches but does travel deep into the body. I believe Kegel exercises were a big help but did produce soreness when I was doing them daily most times every hour. I would recommend a two days intense, two days off with the Kegels as it seems that alternating the days and intensity worked better for me. I have been back to the gym for about two weeks running two miles and lifting weights, same poundage as before my surgery but sticking to machines and cables as I realize that the bladder tie up is still healing so I have avoided any bending and lifting as not harm the healing process.

I had my first post op PSA test and results were ZERO. I shall send an update in 6 months after my next PSA test. Meanwhile anybody with questions or suggestions please feel free to email me.

Thanks God bless and best of health to all.

 

UPDATED
June 2006


Now 4 months since my laparascopic surgery and feel great. Five small pink marks on my abdomen and a sense of urgency at times only after effects. Once in a while will leak a drop when I cough or laugh heavy.My last day with pad was one month ago so took me 3 months to ween myself off the Depends and get back to normal. Started with 6 pads a day after the catheter was removed eventually down to one then..NONE. Frustrating ordeal but takes time. I am fully continent now but not quite back to full firmness but getting there.

My three month post op PSA was 0.0 and hopefully that will be my high point for the rest of my days. Scheduled for next PSA in September at which time I'll update my progress. Anybody with questions please feel free to email me. Best of health to all and God Bless.

 

UPDATED
December 2006

 

Hello all, it has now been 11 months since my Laparoscopic surgery and feeling great. I still have some erection problems but Viagra does work and things are improving but slowly. I find that I urinate more frequently but for short bursts. I think that with the prostate now gone the bladder doesn't fill up totally before I have to urinate but a small price to pay.

My 4 pink incisions marks are now gone and my second PSA test came back 0.05 ng/ml. I have been removed from Sloan Kettering's Prostate Cancer Patient list and now placed on the Cancer Survivor list meaning my PSA check ups are now yearly instead of every 6 months.

I believe that Laparoscopic was indeed a miracle for me and if anyone out there cares to discuss my expereinces please feel free to email me.

God Bless and Good health to all.

 

UPDATED
April 2007

 

I am now 14 months post Laprascopic removal and my PSA continues to be undetectable 0.05. Five small incisions have disappeared and in great health. My continence is fine but seems that holding my bladder a bit more difficult and my bladder doesn't fill totally before I have to urinate, so I go more often but a less of a stream.

My ED has not responded well to Viagra and Cialis so I am going for injection treatments at Sloan Kettering starting April. I don't know much about them but kind of interested in anything that works (so is my wife). Will update once I get more ED treatments.

Best of health to all and good luck.

Tom.

Tom's e-mail address is: hitdamusik@aol.com

 

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